Can I Decide About Adoption After Giving Birth? - Birthright of Greater Hartford

February 27, 2024

Are you still going back and forth with adoption as you face your unplanned pregnancy? You can decide about adoption not only during pregnancy but also after giving birth. It’s important to know that adoption is always an option:

You can decide about adoption at the hospital
You can decide about adoption after birth
You can decide about adoption in the weeks, months, and, in some cases, even after that

What is Adoption Like?

Adoption is not an easy decision, but it could be a great fit for your unique situation right now. There is more than one adoption plan to choose from. There are three:

Open Adoption Plan

The most common type of adoption is open adoption. With an open adoption, you, as the birth mother, can have open communication with the adoptive family and your child. You can exchange names, addresses, and phone numbers. All parties work together to make visits with one another. It’s up to both parties to build the type of relationship they want.

Closed Adoption Plan

The adoptive family and birth mom remain anonymous with a closed adoption. Sometimes, women need distance and privacy due to difficult life circumstances.

The courts seal the child’s birth certificate and identifying information after everything is finalized with the adoption. This may be your best option if you are worried about your child’s safety.

Semi-open Adoption Plan

With a semi-open adoption plan, it’s a mix of open and closed adoption. Communication is made between you and your child and the adoptive family, but all through the adoption agency or specialist you’ve chosen.

Learn More About Adoption

We’re here to help you navigate this important decision regarding your pregnancy and future. You are not alone.

Schedule a free and confidential appointment today to learn more. We believe in helping you find an option that doesn’t compromise your health or peace of mind.

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