Hiding My Pregnancy: Would Abortion Be an Option? - Birthright of Greater Hartford

January 2, 2025

When hiding your pregnancy and considering abortion, things can get a little confusing. While you may not want to tell anyone about your pregnancy or your decision about abortion right now, you are putting your mental health at risk down the road.

It’s best to be honest with family or friends you trust about your pregnancy situation. We can help you make a plan to share the news with them and conquer your fears during this time. You are stronger than you know.

Determine Where Your Pregnancy Stands

Before making any pregnancy decision, you will want to safeguard your health by confirming your pregnancy details. Begin with a free medical-grade pregnancy test at our center today to be sure of your pregnancy.

We always recommend following up with an ultrasound to determine where your pregnancy stands and what pregnancy options you have.

Learn All Your Options

It’s okay to take a moment to yourself before sharing any pregnancy news or options you’re considering with those around you. You may need a moment to think through your options, and that’s normal.

At Birthright of Greater Hartford, we can inform you about all your pregnancy options, including abortion. You deserve all the facts to make an informed, confident decision. We understand how this time can seem scary, but you are not alone.

Sharing the News

Once you know where your pregnancy stands and you’ve had a moment to think for yourself, plan a place and time to share your pregnancy news.

Timing is important when sharing such big news. Choose a time when your family or friends are at ease, ideally on the weekend or when they are off work, so they can fully process it. Determine if you are going to share about what options you’re considering as well.

We’re Here for You

Whether you need support sharing the news with a family member about your pregnancy or to confirm your pregnancy details, we’re here for you. We can also share more about your abortion option and your other pregnancy options.

While it can be tempting to want to isolate during this unexpected time, know that finding support is important to your health. You are not alone. Schedule a free and confidential appointment today.

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