My Partner Is Pressuring Me to Have an Abortion, But I’m Not Sure

January 28, 2023

As a woman, the outcome of your pregnancy is up to you.

Regardless of your age, relationship status, or immigration status, no one has the right to attempt to pressure you directly or indirectly into abortion. This includes your partner, your family, or your partner’s family.

You deserve to make your choices in a safe and unpressured environment.

Boundaries

When weighing your options for the future of your pregnancy, your first step should be to establish healthy boundaries.

Communicate your boundaries clearly and assertively with your partner.

Let your partner know you are willing to discuss your options with him, but ultimately the decision is yours. Any input from your partner to manipulate or threaten you into having an abortion cannot be tolerated.

Share your feelings with your partner. If abortion doesn’t feel like the right option, let your partner know. They don’t need to understand your decision, but they must respect it.

Seek Support

It can be difficult to set and maintain boundaries, especially in a situation as challenging as an unexpected pregnancy. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor if you need extra support processing your feelings and communicating your decision to your partner.

Inform Yourself

It might feel like you don’t have many options when facing an unplanned pregnancy, but you do!

Seek information regarding your pregnancy, so you are prepared to make informed decisions regarding your health and future. Obtaining a pregnancy test to confirm your pregnancy is your first step.

Armed with this information and support, you can make confident decisions.

Schedule a Free, Confidential Appointment

If you are facing an unintended pregnancy, we can help!

We provide pregnancy testing, resources, and information free of charge to empower you to make the right choice. At Birthright, we can offer support and help you navigate your options. Call or schedule an appointment online today.

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