Navigating Pressure from Friends and Family When Considering Abortion

October 15, 2024

You may already feel stressed about making a pregnancy decision as each day passes. You are not alone. An unplanned pregnancy is an often challenging and confusing time.

While you may feel pressure from friends and family when considering abortion, know that you have the final say.

Here are some strategies to help you work through this time.

Take Time Alone to Process

It’s important to address the emotions coming at you during this time and not ignore them. Consider your emotions about your pregnancy and your thoughts about all your pregnancy options.

Take the time you need before talking with others to feel more settled as you confront your emotions and work through them as best as possible.

Feeling Pressured into a Decision?

There could be intentional pressure happening from those around you, around abortion, or indirect pressure. It’s never okay for someone to force you into a decision you don’t want to make. Find the space you need to feel at peace during this crucial time.

You may deeply care about what your friends and family say about your pregnancy situation. It’s okay to take their insight and see their perspective.

Your friends and family may offer a new perspective on your pregnancy situation that you haven’t considered yet or offer the practical support you need. While the final decision is yours, gaining new perspectives and advice could be helpful.

Be Informed in a Safe Space

Remember, you have the final say. We are here for you as you decide what’s best for you.

Be sure to safeguard your health through proper pregnancy confirmation. Begin with a free and confidential medical-grade pregnancy test at Birthright of Greater Hartford. We can help you understand the results.

Our caring volunteers are here to offer information about abortion and all of your pregnancy options so you can make an informed decision.

Schedule a free appointment to get answers and learn what’s next for your unique situation. We’re here for you.

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