Signs You Are Being Pressured into an Abortion Decision

February 4, 2025

Being pressured into an abortion decision is never okay. Creating space between those trying to pressure you and finding a safe place to talk through your situation is important.

At Birthright of Greater Hartford, we’re here to listen to your unique story and talk through all your options. We can better inform you so you can make a confident decision moving forward. You are not alone.

You Feel Uncomfortable

If you feel any sense of fear, manipulation, or intimidation when talking to your partner or family during an unplanned pregnancy, you may be feeling pressure to do something you don’t want to do.

Create healthy boundaries by creating space between yourself and whomever you see fit. This is not personal but vital to safeguarding your mental health as you determine what’s next for you.

You Feel Like They’re Not Listening

If your partner or family member fails to listen to your input about your pregnancy options or your plans for what’s next, this could be a sign of indirect pressure to have an abortion.

If someone is constantly cutting you off, not responding to your questions, or bringing it back to abortion when you’ve clearly stated you want to explore all your options, it’s time to make some space.

You Don’t Feel Safe

Some signs of pressure are more apparent than others. Never hesitate to get help if you feel in danger.

If you sense that your safety is at risk, call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline immediately. A representative can help you find the resources you need to get to safety.

Talk Safely Today

Our caring team is here to help meet your needs wherever you are and talk safely about your situation. We offer free and confidential options consultations so you can make an informed pregnancy decision.

We’re here for you. Schedule a free appointment today.

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