What to Do When Friends and Family Are Pressuring You into an Abortion Decision

December 3, 2024

The most important thing to do right now is not to make a pregnancy decision due to pressure from those around you. A study by the National Library of Medicine revealed that “women who feel pressured to agree to abortion are more likely to experience negative emotional and mental health reactions.”

Even if your family and friends disagree with you exploring all pregnancy options, it’s not okay for them to pressure you into an abortion decision.

Talk to us today at Birthright of Greater Hartford to discuss your pregnancy options in a safe, nonjudgmental space and without pressure.

Create Space for Yourself

If you can’t seem to get a word in while discussing your pregnancy with friends or family, it may be best to get space from certain individuals. You deserve respect and kindness no matter what.

Find the space you need to feel like you can hear your own thoughts and form your own opinions about your pregnancy options.

Once you’ve had time to process, talk to a friend or family member who is not pressuring you. It is so important to find someone you can talk to freely and safely during this decision-making process.

Be Informed About All Your Options

You have three pregnancy options: abortion, adoption, and parenting. Educate yourself on the process of each one, as well as the risks of abortion. Think about the effects of each option on your future.

Discuss all three of these at Birthright of Greater Hartford today. Our volunteers are here to offer the pregnancy services you need to explore your options. First, receive a free pregnancy test, and then we can help you with the next steps.

We Can Help

Feel free to give us a call to learn more about our free pregnancy testing services. Call (860) 290-8800. You can also schedule an appointment to discuss this further. We have time for you.

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